Feeling confused about next steps? Same

If someone asked me, “So what’s next after uni?” I’d probably smile and change the subject. I don’t have a solid answer yet. And honestly? That used to really stress me out. 

Like many students, I came to university with a goal in mind. But somewhere along the way, I’ve realised that there isn’t just one clear path to follow. There are so many options, and sometimes it feels like I’m standing at a crossroads with no signposts. Just me, a bunch of ideas, and a very loud internal monologue. 

Too many choices, not enough clarity 

One day, I’m thinking about applying for graduate schemes. The next, I’m seriously considering freelancing or doing something more creative. I’ve even thought about doing a Master’s, just to buy myself more time to figure things out (classic move, right?). 

And don’t get me wrong—having options is great. But sometimes, too many choices can be overwhelming. There’s this pressure to have it all figured out by the time you graduate, and when you don’t, it can feel like you’re falling behind—even if that’s not true. 

The confidence wobble 

I’d be lying if I said this hasn’t affected my confidence. Some days I feel motivated and ready to take on the world. Other days? I scroll through job listings, close the tab after ten minutes, and wonder if I’m doing enough. 

It’s easy to compare yourself to others too—friends landing internships, peers already working full-time, people announcing exciting things on LinkedIn. Meanwhile, you’re just trying to decide whether your CV sounds “professional” enough. 

But I’ve (slowly) learned that not having it all figured out is completely normal. And more importantly, it’s okay. 

What I'm doing right now 

Instead of trying to make one huge decision all at once, I’ve started taking small steps: 

• Talking to people – I’ve had chats with lecturers, the university careers team, and even friends in different fields. Sometimes hearing other people’s stories helps me see what could work for me.

• Applying anyway – Even if I’m not 100% sure, I’ve started applying to roles that interest me. The process itself teaches you a lot—about the industry, the role, and what you actually enjoy doing. 

• Reflecting on what excites me – I’ve been journaling (yes, seriously) about what kinds of tasks make me feel excited vs. drained. It’s helped me narrow things down, bit by bit. 

Using uni resources – The Career and Employment service has been a lifesaver. You can get your CV checked, or practice interviews. There are also helpful job boards – they're great when you feel stuck. 

You’re not alone 

If you’re reading this and feeling just as confused, please know you’re not alone. So many of us are figuring things out as we go. It’s okay to feel unsure, to change your mind, or to take a bit longer to find your way. 

This stage of life is messy, exciting, and terrifying all at once. But I truly believe that every step you take—no matter how small—moves you closer to something that’s right for you. 

Final thoughts 

It’s okay to not have a 5-year plan. It’s okay to explore. It’s okay to say, “I don’t know what’s next”—as long as you keep moving, stay curious, and believe that your path will unfold in its own time. 

We’ve all got our own timeline. And right now, I’m learning to be okay with mine. 🌱 

Hi, I’m Nuzhat Tasnim Rifa, a final-year Computer Science student at the University of Hertfordshire. I’m passionate about technology, learning new skills, and helping others navigate university life. Alongside my studies, I’ve taken a part-time role at the university as a Student Ambassador, which has helped me grow in confidence, communication, and leadership. I enjoy balancing academics with real-life experiences and love sharing what I’ve learned to support others on a similar path. This blog site is a space where I share tips, reflections, and insights to help students make the most of their time at university and beyond.